My father taught me about faithfulness. It wasn’t just the words he spoke or the result of any forceful action on his part. It was, however, a daily lesson.
My father taught me faithfulness by simply being faithful.
Faithful to Family
My father was faithful to my mother. No other woman entered his thoughts or entertained his attention.
The word divorce was never mentioned in our home. In fact, I probably didn’t even know the word until my later years in school. My mother never had to worry about where my father was. He always told her where he was going and usually how long he expected to be away.
Faithful to Employer
My father was faithful to his employer. He never laid out of work no matter how he felt. Unless he was in the hospital or deathly sick at home, he always rose early in the morning, did his chores, gave Mom a special kiss and told us goodbye. He gave his employer ‘an honest day’s work’ whether he received an honest day’s pay or not.
Faithful to Parents
My father was faithful to his parents. He always checked in on them, prepared and shared garden produce, and raised a beef for them each year.
Faithful to Children
My father was faithful to his children. We were secure in his love for us. He did without to provide our needs. There was always food on the table and clothes on our backs.
Money was hard to come by, but if he could afford it, he would do his best to provide what we needed.
As a child, I never had to go to bed hungry or worried that my father would never return home.
Faithfulness Brings Joy
Faithfulness is a Bible word. Paul speaks of faithfulness in Colossians 2:
“For though I be absent in the flesh, yet am I with you in the spirit, joying and beholding your order, and the stedfastness of your faith in Christ.
As ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him:
Rooted and built up in him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been taught, abounding therein with thanksgiving.”
Paul spoke highly of the faithfulness that was displayed by the Colossian brethren. They exhibited a steadfast walk of faith that brought joy to Paul’s heart.
The Colossians’ walk of faith was due to the faithfulness of the One they put their trust in, Jesus Christ.
Following Jesus’ example of how to live a fruitful life laid the foundation for a solid walk that led to an abundance of thanksgiving.
“Know therefore that the LORD thy God, he is God, the faithful God, which keepeth covenant and mercy with them that love him and keep his commandments to a thousand generations.” Deuteronomy 7:9
“But the Lord is faithful, who shall stablish you, and keep you from evil.” 2 Thessalonians 3:3
The Colossians enjoyed the blessings of a true relationship with their Savior.
It brings joy to my heart to look back and remember my father’s steadfast faithfulness to his family.
His walk of life was a path that I could tread upon with thankfulness, but Christ’s faithfulness to me is the most important example of faithfulness I could ever discover.
To further your studies in Colossians, check out Ms. Clark's Bible study, So, What's the Latest News? Messages from a Prisoner in Rome available from WestBow Press, a division of Thomas Nelson & Zondervan.
My father-in-law was a pastor until his recent death. As such his family name is well-known and respected even though he has left this present world.
An Exhortation to the Family
Speaking to the family during the funeral, my brother-in-law exhorted family members to live in such a manner that the family’s name and his father’s legacy not be spoiled.
It was an important exhortation that challenged children, grandchildren, nieces, and nephews alike to live circumspectly because their actions could damage a man’s memory and his lasting spiritual influence to his church and community.
For this cause we also, since the day we heard it, do not cease to pray for you, and to desire that ye might be filled with the knowledge of his will in all wisdom and spiritual understanding;
That ye might walk worthy of the Lord unto all pleasing, being fruitful in every good work, and increasing in the knowledge of God.
Colossians 1:10 tells us that Paul’s desire for the Colossian brethren was for them to walk worthy of the Lord’s name.
Walking worthy means living appropriately.
My brother-in-law’s desire was that every family member walk worthy of the family name. In other words, they were to live and conduct their affairs in the way that would be appropriate of the teaching and training that they received of this man of God.
An Exhortation to the Colossian Brethren
The apostle Paul desired the same from the Colossian brethren.
He desired that they behave in a manner appropriate for those who are part of the family of God. Their lives were to reflect the gospel teaching and training that they received from the Lord and of which they were to preach and teach to others. Their actions would then bring glory to God instead of disgrace to His name.
An Exhortation to Walk Worthy of Christ
In like manner, our exhortation is to walk worthy of our Lord. Our behavior should portray the teaching and training that our Heavenly Father has given us.
If we are a child of God, then we are a member of God’s family and, as such, can do great harm to our Heavenly Father’s name if we do not behave appropriately.
We have a great responsibility to preserve our Heavenly Father’s reputation to this world which desperately needs to hear the gospel. Let us, therefore, decide that we will not do any damage to His precious name.
As ye know how we exhorted and comforted and charged every one of you, as a father doth his children,
That ye would walk worthy of God, who hath called you unto his kingdom and glory.
Over 2000 years ago Christ was crucified on a cross in Jerusalem, Israel.
The land of Israel at that time was under the jurisdiction of the Roman Empire.
Although declared innocent, Christ died as the condemned on a Roman cross.
What significance did Christ’s death have?
Why does all of humanity look back to that moment on Golgotha?
And having made peace… Colossians 1:20
God is the great peacemaker
When man ponders peace, his mind is invaded with thoughts of war, rumors of war, the loss of countless lives taken in war, and his own inner war.
When mankind speak peace
Mankind usually speaks of peace only in terms that concern relations between neighbors or that concern relations between various nations of the world.
The need for a greater peace
However, the need for a greater peace emerges. That need is for peace between mankind and his Creator.
Mankind has broken God the Creator’s established law thus bringing the separation of mankind from his Creator. That separation could not be removed until the penalty the law demanded was paid.
The law required the death of a perfect sinless sacrifice (without spot or blemish). Mankind is not perfect or sinless; therefore, mankind could not and cannot pay this debt.
God is holy and just
Because God is holy and just, His demands for justice must be met.
What is justice?
Justice means that sin or the breaking of the law must be judged and condemned.
The law sets the standard. We cannot meet that standard because we are lawbreakers. We have broken the law. Therefore, the law condemns us.
Sin separated man from God
The condemnation of our sins separated us from God. To be reconciled back to God, the penalty for breaking God’s law had to be paid. That debt could not be paid by mankind.
God desired reconciliation
But God, in His wisdom and love for mankind, knew the one and only way that reconciliation could be accomplished. However, that pathway was costly. Costly not for mankind, but for God Himself.
That reconciliation was made (Col. 1:22) in the body of Christ’s flesh through His death, His sacrifice on the cross, so that it would be possible for us to be presented as holy, unblameable, and unreproveable in His sight:
As a reconciled people
In a reconciled state
The pathway to reconciliation came at a great cost.
→ redemption → forgiveness → reconciliation
By him to reconcile all things unto himself… (Col. 1:20)
Man cannot solve the peace problem
Man could not and never would be able to solve the peace problem between himself and God.
However, God initiated the peace process by sending Christ to die for you and me.
The shedding of Christ’s blood at Calvary was for the reconciliation of all things unto Himself.
The reconciliation of all things (Col. 1:16, 20)
That are created
That are in heaven
That are in earth
God Himself paid the price for redemption
Christ’s sacrifice satisfied the demands of the law. His death paid the redemption fee. His substitutionary death on the cross satisfied the Law’s demand for justice.
In whom we have redemption through his blood, even the forgiveness of sins (Col. 1:14).
Because Christ paid the debt for the guilty and because justice was met, mercy can be bestowed.
Therefore, God has chosen to show mercy to those who will accept His sacrifice, believe on His Son, and ask for forgiveness of sin.
God Himself made a way for man to be reconciled to Him
The message of the cross is that God loves mankind. He so loved mankind that He was willing to step out of heaven, be manifested in the flesh, and place Himself on a cross to pay our sin debt.
His death and subsequent resurrection back to heaven show that He is Almighty God. Now that the price of redemption has been paid, He, as Almighty God, can show mercy and grace to His creation.
Those who reject His sacrifice, however, refuse to accept His substitutionary death for their sin. Therefore, they refuse reconciliation, peace with God, and a future home in heaven.
Those who reject Jesus Christ, reject the peace that mankind can experience between man and his Creator.
If you have not received Christ and His substitutionary death for you, please accept Him today.
You can know the peace that only comes by allowing Him to be your Saviour.
Paul exhorts those who have received Christ to walk in Him (Christ Jesus).
This exhortation by Paul presents several ways that walking in Christ is displayed. See if you can find them in the following verses:
As ye have therefore received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk ye in him:
Rooted and built up in him, and stablished in the faith, as ye have been taught, abounding therein with thanksgiving.
Beware lest any man spoil you through philosophy and vain deceit, after the tradition of men, after the rudiments of the world, and not after Christ. Colossians 2:6-8
As we are taught
When children are very young, they must learn to walk. That skill is taught and encouraged by the parents and/or other caregivers.
As newborn babes in Christ, we also are taught and encouraged by those in spiritual authority over us.
We first must be rooted.
Having our salvation planted firmly in Christ, our doctrines taken directly from the Word of God, and maintaining an ongoing personal relationship with Christ as Lord, we will be built upon a firm foundation.
Then we must be built up.
As a tree begins to grow, it must have nutrients, water, and sunlight to continue the process or it will soon wither and die.
The Word of God will strengthen us. It is the water of life that sustains our spiritual growth. Jesus Christ will guide us as we seek His guidance. His Holy Spirit will teach us all things that we need to know in order to walk in a pleasing manner.
This process will establish us in the faith.
However, added to that process will be life’s experiences. The situations and trials of life will teach us to lean on Christ and reveal to us that we can trust Christ to be all He has promised.
As we abound in thanksgiving
We can then abound in thanksgiving, knowing that Christ has and always will meet our needs. He is our loving Creator who has prepared the way for us to receive salvation by giving His own life as a sacrifice. His sacrifice paid the debt for our sin. That debt is a debt no mortal man can pay.
We must be teachable
A man or woman who is walking in Christ is also teachable.
The more we study God’s Word the more we find ourselves desiring to know more about our Lord. We also find ourselves desiring to please Him in every area of our lives.
The more we study God’s Word and confirm to the image of Christ, the more we recognize the depths of deception and are able to prevent its attack from deceiving us.
We must learn to detect deception in all its forms
We must learn to sift philosophies and opinions through the filter of God’s Word. The more of God’s Word that we know, the more capable we are to detect the deception of evil when it is presented to us as truth.
God’s Word is truth. A real relationship with Christ is a presentation of truth. A person who walks with Christ is a person who walks in truth.
If you have received Christ as Lord, then I hope you are walking with Him today. May your conversations with Him be enlightening and enjoyable.
The cultural responsibilities of man have been dictated by God.
In Genesis 1, God blessed mankind and gave commandments concerning His creation.
“Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.”
Mankind was given the garden “to dress it and to keep it” (Genesis 2).
Man was given the responsibility of dressing and keeping the garden in which he was placed. The same word dress is also found in Deuteronomy 28:39.
“Thou shalt plant vineyards, and dress them.”
Dress has to do with tilling or preparing the earth to be fruitful. Mankind was given the responsibility to care for the earth in which he was placed.
After man sinned, his responsibility to till the earth was suddenly met with the corruption of sin that confronted him daily.
“Thorns also and thistles shall it bring forth to thee; and thou shalt eat bread, till thou return unto the ground” (Genesis 3:18).
“Therefore the LORD God sent him forth from the garden of Eden, to till the ground from whence he was taken” (Genesis 3:23).
Man’s responsibility of tilling the earth remained. He still faced the responsibility of making the earth fruitful even though he would be confronted with the thorns and thistles that the earth brought forth.
Dress also has to do with service. The ground that the man was to dressbelongs to God. As a steward of God’s property, mankind is to “[b]e fruitful and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion.”
Man was given a “helpmeet” to help him fulfill his responsibility.
In order for man (Adam) to be fruitful and multiply, God gave him a helpmeet, a woman.
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh” (Genesis 2:24).
Thus marriage and the fruitfulness thereof was instituted by God. Soon after this first marriage, however, man rebelled against God’s authority and thus began the conflict that continues unto this day.
Man within himself continues to struggle against the forces of darkness that wish to lead him in rebellion against God’s authority and in rebellion against the responsibility that God has placed upon mankind.
Man in his natural state wishes to be his own authority. He does not wish to submit to the governing ruler of this universe.
God set the rules for man’s stewardship.
However, as Creator, God has the power and authority to dictate the rules concerning the universe and all that dwell therein.
“For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him:
And he is before all things, and by him all things consist” (Colossians 1:16-17).
God set in motion the rules of nature and mankind’s stewardship of the same at the moment of creation.
“[W]hatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap” (Galatians 6:7).
As man continued in his rebellion against God, the sowing brought forth fruit that led to destruction by a great flood. Only Noah and his family remained to once again “be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it.”
As the great conflict continued, God Himself came in flesh to this earth to break the stronghold of sin that held men captive.
“And, having made peace through the blood of [Jesus’] cross, by him to reconcile all things unto himself; by him, I say, whether they be things in earth, or things in heaven.
And you, that were sometime alienated and enemies in your mind by wicked works, yet now hath he reconciled.
In the body of his flesh through death, to present you holy and unblameable and unreproveable in his sight” (Colossians 1:20-22).
Man’s obedience brings prosperity.
As man submits to God’s authority, accepts His redemptive plan for his life, and follows in obedience to God’s commands, mankind will prosper in his stewardship of that which God has given him.
“And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season” (Psalm 1:3).
Mankind’s obedience dictates the culture.
Man’s submission to God or lack thereof is the basis for the culture in which he lives.
The culture in which man disobeys God’s authority is filled with “fornication, uncleanness, inordinate affection, evil concupiscence, and covetousness, which is idolatry” (Colossians 3:5).
This culture is in stark contrast to the one in which man obeys God’s directives. The culture that submits to God’s authority lacks anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, cursing, swearing, and racism. (See Colossians 3:8, 11.)
It is filled with mercy, kindness, humility, self-control, longsuffering, forgiveness, and love toward others. (See Colossians 3:12-14.)
In other words, the culture that dressesand serves the Lord is a culture that is filled with righteousness and peace and is exalted by God.
However, the culture that rebels and turns from following God is one that is filled with chaos and reproach.
As mankind submits or rejects God’s authority, he is in effect setting the standards for the culture.
Will those standards be built upon the unchanging “rock” of God’s Word, or will they be set on the “shifting sands” of man’s opinions?
What will be the basis upon which law and order is established?
How will man determine what is truth and justice?
What provision will be made for the “orphan and the widows” of society?
Man’s obedience will be judged.
The outcome of these two differing cultures is fully explained in Deuteronomy 28. It is a must-read for those who wish to understand why societies rise and fall.
However a man decides to follow or reject the responsibility that God has placed upon him, he will be called into question at the Day of Judgment.
How has man stewarded the gifts that God has given him?
Has he sown those gifts in God’s fields and brought forth a harvest for the Lord?
Or has he hidden those gifts in the earth and remained idle with no harvest?
“And he went out about the third hour, and saw others standing idle in the marketplace,
And said unto them; Go ye also into the vineyard, and whatsoever is right I will give you, And they went their way.
And about the eleventh hour he went out, and found others standing idle, and saith unto them, Why stand ye here all the day idle?” (Matthew 20:3-4,6)
Man’s obedience will better society or bring its downfall.
Culture is developed by what mankind sows into it. That culture affects all mankind for his betterment or for his curse.
Every man must accept his own responsibility in the course of that culture. After all, that culture is what he and others around him have sown into it.
Can you define stewardship?
How would you describe the characteristics of your culture?
What kind of dresser have you been for the Lord?
Are you planting the right seed for your society to prosper?
What bad seeds do you see sprouting around you?
What are you doing to choke out those bad seeds and change the harvest to a good one?
Can you have the peace of God and not have peace with God?
Peace: a settled mind, an untroubled heart toward another, not being anxious in the presence of another, safety, feeling secure, to be at one
For it pleased the Father that in him should all fulness dwell; And, having made peace through the blood of his cross, by him to reconcile all things unto himself; by him, I say, whether they be things in earth, or things in heaven. And you, that were sometime alienated and enemies in your minds by wicked works, yet now hath he reconciled In the body of his flesh through death, to present you holy and unblameable and unreproveable in his sight: If ye continue in the faith grounded and settled, and be not moved away from the hope of the gospel, which ye have heard, and which was preached to every creature which is under heaven; whereof I Paul am made a minister. Colossians 1:19-23
Peace of God
God the Father sent Jesus Christ His Son in the flesh to die on an old rugged cross so that you and I might be reconciled to Him. That reconciliation is possible only because of Christ’s death at Calvary. When we received His gift of reconciliation, we were given the peace of God.
Peace with God
But to maintain peace with God after salvation, we must continue in the faith grounded and settled. We have been given the peace of God, but we must remain in a right relationship with God to have peace with Him.
When a man and woman join themselves in holy matrimony (a covenantal relationship), they are given the blessing of the law in that they are married and are considered as one. They have the peace of that legal relationship as they build a house, make purchases, and enter into business contracts, etc.
However, just because they are married does not mean that they will always be at peace with one another. They must maintain the relationship.
They must work at keeping a right relationship with each other. They must walk together, talk together, dream together, and share in each other’s wishes and desires.
When one spouse grows cold in the relationship, it unsettles the other. Insecure feelings creep into the relationship. Hearts become troubled. They are still married, but they are not at peace.
However, when the two renew the relationship with each other, peace ensues. Insecurity leaves and their hearts are at peace.
It is the same in our relationship with God, our hearts grow cold at times. We move away from our relationship with Him. Our hearts soon become insecure and weary.
God woos us back into a right relationship with Him.
When we allow Him to draw ourselves back to Him, our relationship is renewed. We are at peace once again with Him.
Our conscience does not bother us when we feel His presence. We enjoy hearing His voice. We long to feel Him tug at our hearts. We have communion with Him daily. That is when we have peace with God.
Is your heart troubled?
Do you have the peace of God in a covenantal relationship (salvation)? If He came for you today, would you be ready to go with Him to heaven?
Do you have peace with God?
Is it okay if He interrupts your day with His presence?
Does the preaching of the Word of God bother you about any area in your life?
Is there anything that is hindering your relationship with Him? Confess those areas to Him and allow Him to cleanse you and to renew your fellowship with Him.
Yes, you can have the peace of God and not have peace with God.
But wouldn’t you rather have the peace of Godand enjoy peace with God?
Have you received Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior? If not, you can experience the peace of God when you call upon His name and receive Him into your heart.
Seek Him while He may be found.
Call upon Him while He is near.
Receive Him and be forgiven of all your sin.
Enjoy your relationship with Him.
If you have any questions, feel free to leave a comment below.
True liberty cannot be enjoyed by a people who do not recognize the sovereignty of Almighty God.
It is God and God alone who has absolute authority over the affairs of men.
The Institutions of Home, Church, and Government
It is God who rules in the Heavens and the Earth, who has created the Laws of Nature, and who has instituted the home, Church, and government as societal institutions under His authority.
“For by him were all things created, that are in heaven, and that are in earth, visible and invisible, whether they be thrones, or dominions, or principalities, or powers: all things were created by him, and for him.” Colossians 1:16
To protect these institutions, God gave laws governing the conduct of each.
“Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.” Genesis 2:24
“And you, be ye fruitful, and multiply; bring forth abundantly in the earth, and multiply therein.” Genesis 9:7
Mankind was to exercise dominion over the earth.
The responsibility of the institution of family is one of reproduction. The display of government in the home is also a reflection of God and His glory.
The rejection of God’s laws concerning the home is a rejection of not only God’s sovereignty but a rejection of God Himself.
“And they said, Moses suffered to write a bill of divorcement, and to put her away. And Jesus answered and said unto them, For the hardness of your heart he wrote you this precept. But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female. And they twain shall be one flesh: so then they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” Mark 10:5-6, 8-9
The Church (local body of Christ) as instituted by God has also been given an important role in society.
Under God’s direction, the Church is to provide moral and spiritual guidance.
It is also to give instruction and provision for worship and fellowship.
“And he is the head of the body, the church: who is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead; that in all things he might have the preeminence.” Colossians 1:18
In rejecting God’ssovereignty over the church, man is declaring himself to be sovereign.
The deception of a man’s heart will lead him to follow vain philosophies and traditions.
His unrealistic view of life will cause him to blame his environment, government, or other factors as the cause for the complications and consequences of his uncontrolled desires. He will not see himself as a sinner in need of a Saviour.
“Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God: the powers that be are ordained of God. Whosoever therefore resisteth the power, resisteth the ordinance of God: and they that resist shall receive to themselves damnation.” Romans 13:1-2
Not only did God institute the home and the Church, He also instituted civil government.
“For he is the minister of God to thee for good. But if thou do that which is evil, be afraid; for he beareth not the sword in vain: for he is the minister of God, a revenger to execute wrath upon him that doeth evil.” Romans 13:4
Civil governments were instituted by God to restrain evil.
The law is a schoolmaster to show us clearly our sinful natures. That law is based on God’s natural laws and the laws or principles as given in His Word, the Scriptures.
God’s laws do not change according to man’s desires. They remain the same.
When man rejects God’s sovereignty in this area, he will create his own laws. Those laws will change as his desires change. He, therefore, will lose respect for present law and for those whose duty it is to implement that law.
Refusing to adhere to God’s laws, society will continue in a downward spiral. The continued lack of respect for godly authority will give way to ungodly authority and that society’s eventual downfall.
“But he that doeth wrong shall receive for the wrong which he hath done: and there is no respect of persons.” Colossians 3:25
True liberty comes as we subject ourselves to the commandments of God concerning the three areas He has instituted for society.
As families follow God’s principles for the home, families will be blessed. Wives and children will be protected.
As local churches follow God’s instructions for evangelism, worship, fellowship, and guidance, families and communities will grow stronger.
As civil governments and civil servants follow God’s mandate for the implementation and obedience to God’s unchanging standard concerning good and evil, society will be safer.
“He that followeth after righteousness and mercy findeth life, righteousness, and honour.” Proverbs 21:21
“And he is before all things, and by him all things consist.” Colossians 1:17
True liberty can be experienced by all men as they submit themselves to God’s sovereignty and divine will.
For further study in Colossians, a great resource is So, What's the Latest News: Messages from a Prisoner in Rome. This title is available from WestBow Press, a division of Thomas Nelson & Zondervan.
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